Remembering and Honoring Our Mothers

 

 

I realize it's still a little early, but I want to give you some time to think about this. How will you remember and honor your mother this year on Mother's Day? What kind of mother or grandmother do you want to be?

As I remember my mother this year on Mother's Day, I will recall how many times her wisdom has guided me on the journey of life. I will remember how she helped me to grow with love, truth, honesty, and faith in God. I will remember how she inspired me to choose the right path with values, morals, self-worth, and confidence that God was always with me to help me---so I had no reason to be afraid. I will remember how she enCOURAGEd me to dream with hope, assuring me that I could do anything that God led me to do. As I remember, I pray that I've influenced my own children and grandchildren in positive ways, just as my momma influenced me. Her guidance and daily prayers made me who I am today, and no human being has ever touched my life as she did. My momma passed away 27 years ago, but I believe her prayers are still being answered, so her influence continues in my life, even today.

"Remembrance in life's passings is the truest form of love one can give, for a memory should never die and a love should live forever in the heart of another!" (Laura M. Phipps-Kelley)
Mother’s Day is a holiday remembering and honoring motherhood that is observed in different forms throughout the world. The American celebration of Mother’s Day was created by Anna Jarvis in 1908 and became an official U.S. holiday in 1914. Jarvis would later denounce the holiday’s commercialization and spent the latter part of her life trying to remove it from the calendar. While dates and celebrations vary, in the US, Mother's Day is celebrated on the second Sunday in May (which falls on May 12, 2013). In the UK, mothers are honored the fourth Sunday of Lent (which was March 10, 2013). (For more see: http://www.mothersdaycentral.com/about-mothersday/history/) 

Whenever it occurs, Mother’s Day traditionally involves presenting mothers with flowers, cards and other gifts. If you haven't begun to think about how to honor your mom this Mother's Day, let today's post inspire you to think of some creative ways to tell her how much you love and appreciate her. Whether you have children or not, you may have a mother, grandmother, sister, or a special friend who has "been like a mom" to you that you can honor on Mother's Day. Be sure to express your love and appreciation for their influence on your life.

 

Every time I bake this cake or see the recipe for "Fresh Strawberry Cake," I think of my momma, because she used to make it every spring when we had fresh strawberries. Most of the time, she baked on a Saturday, so we would have a great dessert for Sunday lunch. This is her recipe, with a few of my own modifications. I hope you enJOY it!

 

MOMMA'S FRESH STRAWBERRY CAKE



(with my modifications :-)

You'll need a box of white cake mix, a small box of strawberry Jello, vegetable oil, water (or milk, if you follow "my modifications"), 4 eggs, and of course, mashed strawberries.

Now, folks, it doesn't get much simpler than this. Mama's directions say to just mix everything together and pour it into the pan to bake... well, you know me---the "detail" person---I have to go and complicate matters by getting technical.

I'll show you what I mean...

First, I use a mixer to beat all the lumps out of my cake mix and blend in the dry jello.

 

Set this dry mixture aside and cut up, then mash your strawberries. I mashed about a quart of berries and had a little bit left over when I finished the cake. No one complained about the leftovers :-).

 



It takes a few minutes to mash the berries, but just keep mashing, you'll get there! :-)

Add oil, water (or MILK, if you modify), and eggs to the dry mixture and beat with an electric mixer to combine, scraping sides of the bowl to incorporate all the ingredients.

Once the batter is well mixed, gradually add the mashed berries (note the modification in amount).

Grease and flour an oblong (13 X 9) pan or 2 round (9-inch) cake pans. Spread the batter evenly into your prepared pan(s). Bake at 350 for 35-40 minutes. Cool completely, then frost.

Prepare frosting for cooled cake. Using electric mixer, beat softened butter until smooth, then, add 4 cups powdered sugar and blend in 1 cup mashed berries. Add more powdered sugar, if you want a thicker icing.

Spread over cooled cake. Once it's frosted, I like to let the cake sit for a couple of hours to give the frosting time to firm up just a little bit before I cut the cake (but if you're really starving for a piece, go ahead and sample it... no one will ever know!) :-).

All I can say is YUMMMM! :-)

Happy Mother's Day to all moms, grandmoms, future moms, want-to-be-moms, moms-of-pets (I have 4 cats; two of my sisters have their special dogs!), and so on.

(Note: If you'd like to read about the history of Mother's Day, you can do so here: http://www.mothersdaycelebration.com/mothers-day-history.html.)

Don't forget to print (or copy and paste to your cookbook file) the recipe below.

 

Mama's Fresh Strawberry Cake Recipe

(with my modifications in parentheses :-)

Ingredients:

1 box white cake mix

1 - 3 oz. box strawberry Jello

1 c oil (I cut this back to 1/2 to 3/4 cup, depending on what mood I'm in at the time.)

1/4 c. water (I substitute 1/2 c milk; no offense to my mama, but I think it makes a better cake.)

4 eggs

3/4 c. mashed strawberries (I use 1 c mashed strawberries --not drained) (You can substitute 1 (15-oz.) pkg frozen strawberries in syrup, thawed and pureed)

Directions:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Lightly grease and flour cake 13 X 9-inch cake pan (or two to three smaller pans for a layered cake).

Combine cake mix and gelatin. Add remaining ingredients and beat at medium speed with an electric mixer until smooth. Pour into prepared pan(s). 

Bake at 350 for 35-40 minutes. Cool completely, then frost.

FROSTING:

Ingredients:

1 pound box of powdered sugar.

1 stick of butter softened.

1/2 tsp. vanilla (and 1/2 tsp. strawberry extract, if you have it)

1/4 c mashed strawberries (I substitute 1/2 cup of mashed strawberries drained.) (Very important that they are drained.) (You can substitute 1 - 10-oz. pkg. frozen strawberries, thawed and pureed)

Blend well and cover cooled cake. If too thick keep adding strawberries until it is the right consistency. Spread evenly over cooled cake.
 

Mother's Day Remembrances

Peony -- My Favorite Spring Flower (reminds me of my mama)

Happy Mother's Day to all moms, grandmoms, future moms, want-to-be-moms, moms-of-pets (I have 4 cats; two of my sisters have their special dogs!), and so on. Whether you have children or not, you may have a mother, grandmother, sister, or a special friend who has "been like a mom" to you that you can remember this month. Be sure to express your love and appreciation to them for their influence on your life. (Note: If you'd like to read about the history of Mother's Day, you can do so here: http://www.mothersdaycelebration.com/mothers-day-history.html .)

My daughter made me my first Mother's Day lunch when she was seven years old. I don't know if you can read what she wrote on my handmade invitation (photographed below), but I framed it and have it hanging in my kitchen now. In case you can't read it, here's what she wrote:

lunch at

Kenda's

cookin

Free

For Mothr's

Day! Lunches

To Pat Rains

Kenda, age 7

When the kids were young, I never liked to eat at a restaurant on Mother's Day (and still don't), because they are always so crowded. Instead, we would prepare a picnic basket (or order out at KFC or a drive-thru window) and either go to the park or take a quilt and walk to the property where our house is now built. Outdoor picnics with the family were so much more fun than trying to find a table in a crowded restaurant. We usually ended our meal with a game of Frisbee or by taking a hike in the woods. We have a couple of old oak trees on the east side of our house that the kids used to enjoy climbing after (and sometimes during) our picnics.

Today, I want to demonstrate how to make one of my favorite "take-out" foods that looks complicated, but is really easy and yummy. From a make-ahead brunch to a picnic in the park, your mom will have a wonderful time if you prepare this beautiful meal for her. It's pretty wrapped and placed in a picnic basket, or presented on a delicate platter and served indoors.

Let's get started!

Lorna's Yummy, Yummy Reuben Loaf

Before I get going too far into ingredients, I need to say that this recipe was given to me several years ago by a dear friend, Lorna Strong, who is not only a great cook, but also, one of the BEST mothers on this planet. Happy Mother's Day, Lorna! You are LOVED!

Ok, now, let's get all our stuff and start cookin'!

Don't forget to check out the complete recipe on page 66 of "A Pinch of This... A Smidgen of That" cookbook, or if you don't have the cookbook yet, you can go to the end of this post, copy and paste it to your browser, and print it or save it in your recipe file. EnJOY!!

(see list of ingredients in recipe below)

Set aside 1 cup flour. Mix remaining flour, sugar, salt and yeast.

Stir in hot water (not too hot--about like a baby's bath water) and MELTED butter. (Mine isn't melted in the photo, but I promise, I did melt it before I added it to the flour mixture.)

(Just pretend the butter is melted, okay? :-)

Mix in only enough reserved flour to make dough soft. Knead 4 minutes (no cheating!).

Knead 4 minutes (no cheating!). I just do this inside the bottom of the bowl. I know some of you would take it out to the counter top, and that's okay. I'm just lazy.

and we knead.... (for 4 minutes!)... gets out all the frustrations of the day!

Now, comes the FUN part :-). No, really!! I love this part. You'll see.

On greased cookie sheet, (or on a piece of waxed paper) roll dough to 10 X 14 inches (I always, always get out my old wooden ruler and measure, and measure...). (Note: I always do this on waxed paper that I've covered with a little sprinkling of flour to keep the dough from sticking.  First, I wipe the counter clean with a damp dish cloth, then while it's still wet, I lay two pieces of paper, side-by-side, on the counter---it sticks, and I dust the top of it with flour before rolling out my dough. Works like a charm!)

Get out your dough roller, and don't forget your old wooden ruler ...

Begin by patting the dough down with your fingers and stretching it to form a rectangle (well, sort of). As you press it out more with the dough roller, you can gently tug at the corners to get it to a more rectangular shape.

And, don't forget to check the length and width (you don't really have to do this... I'm just OCD that way!) :-)

Yep, that's about 10 inches! Now, to get the other side to 14 inches.

Spread dressing down center 1/3 of dough. 

 Use your spatula to spread out the dressing so it covers the center 1/3 of the dough.

Top with layers of meat, cheese and sauerkraut.

Begin about an inch away from the filling and cut 1-inch wide diagonal strips along sides of filling out to dough edges. (It makes more sense when you see it :-).

Don't cut quite all the way to the end. Leave a little bit to tuck up over the filling on both ends.

And this is how it looks before you start to braid...

 I usually begin by tugging the dough at the end farthest from me to slightly overlap the beginning of the filling layers.

Then, alternating sides, fold strips at an angle across filling.

If you have any questions, you can always leave a "comment" or email me :-).

Now, do the same thing with the other side.

until it looks like this:

Now, when you're almost finished braiding (with one or two strips left), you will need to tug on the dough at the end just a bit and stretch it gently up over the filling before you braid the last couple of strips. Like this:

and like this:

and this...

and finally...

See, I told you this was FUN! :-)

Now, if you did like me and rolled this out on waxed paper instead of rolling it on a greased baking sheet, you'll need to transfer this pretty braided loaf of yumminess to your greased baking sheet so it can rise. I always smear a thin coat of plain Crisco (solid) down the middle of my cookie sheet.

Then, I carefully lift the Reuben Loaf off the counter and place it on the baking sheet to rise.

Cover dough. Place baking sheet over large, shallow pan, half-filled with boiling water for 15 minutes. (Or just cover it with a lint-free cloth and put it in a cozy place to rise for an hour or so,

which is what I always do.)  Rising time isn't critical on this loaf. I've even wrapped it in plastic wrap at this stage and refrigerated it overnight before letting it rise. So, you see it's fairly versatile.

Once it's risen, use a basting brush (or your fingers :-), to spread a light coating of egg white over the surface of the dough.

Sprinkle with caraway seeds.

Sprinkle seeds, as desired (I don't like too many of these.)

Bake at 400 degrees F. for 25 minutes, or until golden.

 Allow to sit 15 minutes before transferring to a platter to serve. Use a serrated knife to slice. Store uneaten portions in refrigerator; microwave to warm.

Serve with your favorite chips and dill pickle spears.

LORNA'S YUMMY, YUMMY REUBEN LOAF

INGREDIENTS:

3 1/4 c. all purpose or bread flour

1 T. sugar

1 tsp. salt

1 pkg. Rapid-rise Yeast

1 c. hot water

1 T. butter or margarine

1/4 c. Thousand Island Dressing

6 oz. thinly sliced corned beef from the deli

1/4 lb. sliced Swiss cheese

1 - 8 oz. can sauerkraut, drained

1 egg white

Caraway seeds

DIRECTIONS:

Set aside 1 cup flour. Mix remaining flour, sugar, salt and yeast. Stir in hot water (not too hot--about like a baby's bath water) and butter/margarine. Mix in only enough reserved flour to make dough soft. Knead 4 minutes (no cheating!). On greased cookie sheet, (or on a piece of waxed paper) roll dough to 10 X 14 inches (I always, always get out my old wooden ruler and measure, and measure...). Spread dressing down center 1/3 of dough. Top with layers of meat, cheese and sauerkraut.

Cut 1-inch wide strips along sides of filling out to dough edges. Alternating sides, fold strips at an angle across filling. Cover dough. Place baking sheet over large, shallow pan, half-filled with boiling water for 15 minutes. (Or just cover it and put it in a cozy warm place to rise, which is what I always do.) Brush with egg white after it's risen. Sprinkle with caraway seeds.

Bake at 400 degrees F. for 25 minutes, or until golden. Allow to sit 15 minutes before using a serrated knife to slice servings. Store uneaten portions in refrigerator; microwave to warm.